The concept of feminism, is too long to be discribed in just a few words.it took feminists so long to make it an acceptable phenomenon.Despite having done alot of work,feminists are still encountring many difficulties.it is not an easy thing to make people deviate from societal rules that have been embedded in their personalities.thought,feminism is not a bad concept to be liked but it can have different repercussions in different societies;many people take it as a positive development but,many are here to criticize it firms.And, antagonist dnt get shy to utter anything against it.in my own view,feminists have failed to make people aware what exactly is it.?is it an opportunity to violate societal norms or it is to empower every person at equal level.?in many developing counties,people take is just as an opportinity which gives women a chance to break societal set rules abruptly.i have seen a number of videos in which women were dancing, in the middle of men who were unsolicitedly gawking at them, to show solidarity with feminist.it is really a right step to be taken?dnt you think they should start it from some others steps that should portray feminism in a positive way among people who are already against it.

I am not againt feminism.equity is a good thing to be prevailed in our society.there are many things which could pull us out of all these funks;but the neend is to take initiatives in a right way.


Kurds and right of self determination.

Kurdas are basically stateless people.even,having filled all the criteria of being a separate nation,they are still stateless.they are denied of their right of self determination,bacause it will lead toward political imbalance in the region.but, the question is,why countries,such as turkey and iraq, sign united nations human rights charter, if they are unable to pursue its requirments.it has been clearly written in UNHRC,that every nation has a right of self determination..even,if we look at the history,one of the major reasons why usa colonalists decleared war with Britishers, was their idea of being a separate state, that pursuaded them to stand for their right.the belief of being a separete nation played very much important role in indo-pakistan separation.as far as kudrs are concerned,they want themselves being recognized as a state in a peaceful way;they want a democratic country but who is there to listen their voice??

Have you ever met the human version of headache?

I love being human;and i wanna see eveyone happy.i try my best to help out others;but,sometimes, we come across a person who actually becomes a torture.it becomes really difficult, to make them realize,they are wrong.But,they went on complaining,that, there problems are too big, to be solved easily.you went on telling them,that,there is solution of every problem;but they never listn and keep on whining.they never agree to think about solution calmly.

Please dn’t be a whinny little shit!

Israel palestine issue

The world in which we live, is too beautiful to be spoiled.many parts of our beautiful planet are burning but we cannot listen there voice.amid of all this chaos, there is a place, in middle east, which is called palestine israel.this issue is too long to be submarised in a few words, but, i could not resist myself,to write about it.This place is in chaos, since 1919. I am not againt either country but what i wanna say is please end this conflict.why both countries are reluctant to come up at an acceptable solution.both of these are not ready to move a single step back from their demand.but time has changes.in 1948,when this conflict was started, palestine got independence from british,and then israel came,no matter what was the reason,and it resulted into conflict.then, U.N Showed involvement  to solve this issue and suggested two state solution;which was not acceptable for palestine;because they were of the view that it is our state; how we could divide it.But, israel also came up with a lot of justificatins to make these settlement legal.two states solution proved a sign of relief for israel and she didnt take a minute to accept it.what came out of it, was decleration of inddependence by israel,which was rejected by many muslim states but accepted by many western states.this event increased sentiments of Muslims world and they came to help palestinians.this lead towads war;and resultantly, israel got control over many areas of palestine and included those into israel.so,it became a never ending phenomena,people are being killed and esclation is increasing with every passing day..israel has got control over 90 percent of territory;and is stronger than palestine.palestine has fallen into hands of fighters who actually give them a false hope of independence and palestinians,see ii as lucrative and support them.


1. Governments of both israel and palestine will have to make their mind clear that either they wanna solve this issue or not

2after this, they will have to decided what actually they want.

3.both should  gain confidence of the people and should make them convince to agree for peace talks

4.there are many people in israel government who dont want peaceful solution;there are some people who want but are reluctant to take steps; and some actually want to solve it.and same is in case of palestine.

5.israel should halt settlement

6.israel should make more indusrial zones for palestinians.

7.israel should give basic facilities to people of palestine to gain their confidence

8.palestinian government should gain confidence of there people to make them stop supporting fighters groups.

9.after,UnGA session it became clear that israel is very much reluctant to accept two states solution.according to an eminent american newspaper;when NetanYahu was asked to give his view about this issue then,he said;we want peaceful settlements;but he was reluctant to use the word of “two states solution.”

10.Both,will have to talk about it;if they wanna solve this issue.

Virtuous of being a good observer

Everyone has own way of life.we encounter different things during our regular commuting.some people are happened to be meticulous;and some are those who dont give a damn to others and mostly remain immensely immersed in their work.observation not only increases our knowledge, but also indulge us in good mental exercises.there are many things in the nature-rain,flowers,birds,sea-that can fill our heart with mirth and pluck smile at our lips within no time.

Be a good observer and say no to worries.life is too short to be worried about trivial things.stay blessed 🙂

Rohingya crisis

Since we all are busy and no one gives a damn to other people.there is a small minority,Rohingya, living in Rakhine state of Myanmer.they are deprived of their basic right to citizenship despite having lived there for age.they are forced to flee to bangladesh.they are living there life without any shelter and are dying of hunger.

Why is it happening

Myanmrer government gives a reason that they dnt belong to us they are those people whose parents fled to myanmar during british rule.so government have statred ethnic cleansing operation and rohingyas are not allowed to live there.Myanmer government refused to allow UnHRC to visit that place and analyse whole situation.Journalists are not allowed to go there, and, those who are allowed, have to follow certain restrictions and conditions.they are not free to report the problem completely.i watched an interview of five years old girl who lost her parents on their way to bangladdesh but she managed to cross the boarder.so what is future of that girl?who will provide her shelter?this is just a small example.people are dying,women are being rapped,children are crying but Myanmer government have no concern.

My question is

Everone knows they are not bangladeshi or indiands; they are living in Myanmmer since ages.let suppose the stance of Myanmer goverment is right, still, whoever they are,they are human being.aren’t they? They are stateless people, some are now even nameless.they have no identity.they know that no one will accept them.i have no idea how Myanmer government even think of it.

When we talk about suffrage of people in syria and yamen,we say that all that is happening bacause of proxy wars which are being fought there by super power but what about myanmer?who is playing proxy wars there?Rohingyas are too poor to earn daily livings.thay are not allowed to marry without government permission.they are deprived of their right of education and even employment..they are too weak to stand for their right infront of government.

So who is responsible for this?

Why human being are not allowed to live in earth peacefully .?

Where they all will go?

Ironically we do all this intentially and then we say that terrorism is increasing in the world,and,then we blame muslims to spread terrorism in the world.but we dnt look at the reasons that are triggering this menace.

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Lovely blog award

Helo friend.hope you all are doing well.

This post is not an ordinery ones its about “lovely blog award” .i really wanna appreciate whoever took this initiative because it is a way to encourage and motivate people to write more.and thank you swati Mishra dear for nominating me.i actually got a chance to share my blog experience and tell you guys a few things about me.i would like to know about all of you as well because it is not facebook so we never get chance to know about a person whose words actually inspire us the most.

I am psychologist by profession but writting is my avocation.friendly speaking, i never used to write till university but there comes a point in everyone’s life when they actually want to write all what they feel and what they want;then writting becomes only way to express your feelings through words.i dnt knw how many of you actually read my blog posts but i wanna say this wordpress is one of the awesome things that are ever happend.you never feel alone.whenever i read blog post i actually feel as if someone has written what is in my mind.this blog gives a motivation and a platform where we can write whatever we wanna write without any fear.its a best way of catharsis and to know that this world is actually full of positive people.

So here I Am 🙂

I am a psychologist

A simple girl

It actually irritates me when anyone say you are beautiful 🙂

But i feel happy when someone say you are kind:)

I wanna be a good writer but i dnt know how long it will take me to write inspirational things. 🙂

I am friendly and extrovert.

And i will feel happier if i get feedback from you guys because it means alot 🙂

And as far as nomination is concernd,i actually nominate all of you and wanna know about you guys.

Whoever read my this post please share someting about you.and feel free to say whatever you guys wana say and you can ask whatever you wana ask i actually wouldnt mind 🙂

Let it be a different type of blog post 🙂

Thank you