Thinking about love in a philosophical way can feel a little cold and clinical.i don’t know if true love exists in an absolute form.But definately it exists thts why it makes people think about it so immensly.
It exists in many forms.it has different rules and values in different societies and culture.Many researches have been done to find out “truth about existence of love”, but how it can be found equaly same when it exists in different forms and rules.
Only a philosophy could give a philosophical explanation but for a common man,like me,it is not that much complicated thing.
It is not possible to define it in one or two lines definition.Everyone has own way of perceiving it.What makes you fall in love is your Attraction and compatability. Everyone has own choice and philosophy about love.you can’t convince others to believe in your perceptions.
What can be the possible explanation of love:
It all depends upon your thinking and believes.Love is name of a thing that makes us happy and cause pleasure,tranquality,peace.It can be a person,a place or even a thing.People love their parents because they are a source of peace and play major role to make their life a better thing.Some people love their car because they feel much pleasure whenever they get in.some love to travel.People love their partners because they share their life in a way that makes them dependent upon one an other.They find eachother a comfortable person to be live with.Some people do it willingling and some make to do it because of their traditions that keep them together and as a result they start finding their ideal in the next person.This happens when you know you have to do it as there is no other option.so eventually you become comfortable with the person who may not be actually what you ever wanted.
Whenever you see and interact with a person and feel this is exactly equal to my Own choice and imagination then you call it love.you strongly try to enter that person into you sphere of influence.you will surely strict to your choice, but, only if next person will be exactly equal to your expectations.It surely happens that people fall in love but end up soon,Why,because they indeed dnt fall under the choice criteria of next person.They realize it and decide to end up.
Another thing is possible,such as “Your needs and demands”.As,some people find much attraction for those who can fullfill all their basis needs.you start perceving him/her and ideal being.you feel as if it a subject of substential significance in order to make your life a comfortable thing.You went on thinking about him/her and call it love.And you start thinking that life cannot be possible without that person because you not only idealise him, but also his whole way of life.
As according to Kavanagh,whenever you see a person and find him or her attractive then it results into release of dopamine and you actually feel pleasure.this reaction is so strong that you feel this person is ideal for you.And you went on thinking about him/her.But there could come a time when you may not find it attractive anymore.So,it could end up your that attraction.
In a nutshell,Love really exist in different forms.Everyone has own set of beliefs about it.Everyone defines it according to their choices and preferences.It cannot be same for everyone.It is surely complicated but does exist.